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How To Deal
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When someone doesn't love you, how can you deal with it? I know you are going to say move on, but I don't want to. I love someone so much, and I can't do anything about it.
how old are you and how long were you together?
Too old, and the person hasn't been out with me. You just know that you do though.
^WHAT?
how old . . . and dont say too old . . .
He's like 17 at the oldest...
Anyways, there really isn't that much you can do...just try to hang out with your friends as much as possible so you don't have to think about it as much. Maybe even try to find another girl that you enjoy being with. It just takes time though, you just have to be patient. '' If u commited suicide, u wouldn't be here anymore'' - Gangsta Fruit
I'M BATMAN!!!!!!!!
I finally retired the Sarah Palin signature because she is now 100% irrelevant.
Let me disect this one by one. Your Statment: "When someone doesn't love you" My Answer: Tought luck, trying to get a women to love you is like drinking poison, it will only kill you. Your Statment: "how can you deal with it?" My Answer: Simple, dont! You will wast your entier life trying to deal with it, and miss out on the hot girl who sits on the other side of the lunch room, who has liked you since second grade. Your Statment: "I know you are going to say move on" My Answer: Not possible buddy, you will like her untill she gives you an answer. Go up to her and ask her stait up. You Statment: "I love someone so much," My Answer: Dont we all, and guss what someone loves you to, now go and find her. You Statment: "and I can't do anything about it." My Answer: You cant controll your own emotions, so dont expect to be able to controll hers. Buddy, u must have some firends that are girls, talk to them about this. Girls love to talk about this kinda crap. As for you "Loving" this chick. No one knows real love. PS: I first wanted to post a really sarcastic reply to your prediciment, every one goes through crap. Next time you feel this way, i wouldnt post it on the internet for all to see. Have you even asked this chick out?
There isnt much, forcing someone to love you isnt really respectable at all. If you truely love someone, let them do their own thing. If you move on, eventually your feelings will go away.
Move on. Plain and simple.
Huh.... No offense, but I can't listen to you guys just yet. I love her!!!!!
Have you even asked her out?
I think he has. Anyway, I once had a girl named Candace deny me and then take me. Turns out I didn't like her one bit after I became "closer" with her. If she doesn't like you, then you really can't make her unless you do something drastic. I would look for a girl you could help out, and who likes you.
I think making topics with her name in them on a random forum MIGHT be a little creepy.
Didn't you just love a different girl like 2 months ago?
I think her name was Maggie... Anyways, if nothing else works, there's always alcohol. '' If u commited suicide, u wouldn't be here anymore'' - Gangsta Fruit
^ I think he's talking about the same person. But what do I know.
I'm not really the best at giving advice, but you really have no choice but to move on. When I think of better advice, I'll let you know because sometimes if I put a lot of thought into it, I can come up with some really good advice. Just know that you will find "the one" someday.
This forum is gonna hit rock bottom soon.
Coaster Count: 128
#1 Coaster: El Toro
It already has.
Move on, simple as that. If you can't, seek professional help because if you pursue her knowing she doesn't have interest in you, you will find yourself in trouble. Start stalking her and you will find yourself in prison for 3 years (if you live in Illinois) I finally retired the Sarah Palin signature because she is now 100% irrelevant.
"Love" is a very difficult thing to handle. Many people on here say
get over it, and to move on and they are right. It's always best to move on and to forget about it. If you know you don't have a chance with the girl, then move on and don't dwell on it. If you keep dwelling on the fact that you love her and you want her to love you, it could potentially turn against you and it could lead to obession and lead into stalking. We all have someone that we "love" and we know that we have no chance with them, and the best thing to do is to move on. In JGSixFlags First comments: Your Statment: "I know you are going to say move on" My Answer: Not possible buddy, you will like her untill she gives you an answer. Go up to her and ask her stait up. He is correct. The best way to move on, is to find out if she likes you or not. Yes, you could get the answer you don't want to hear, but it's better to hear what she thinks, than to sit there and wonder. Now can you move on without asking her? Yes you can, but it will eat inside of you and fester and get worse. It's better to get the answer now, in a healthy way, than to get the answer in a non-healthy way in the future. Your best solution, go to her, tell her how you feel. I've done this before and you know what, I did get the answer I didn't want to hear, but I felt much better getting it out and in the open. And I would recommend, don't use a public forum to get answers like this. The best thing to do is to talk to someone privatly about your feelings than to ask a lot of people, cause you'll get a ton of answers. And it is best to talk to an adult who knows how to handle these sorta things. As a Young Adult myself, I've gone through this many times! So I know what you're going through! "The world of politics is filled with uncivilized, snarling, rapacious beasts that, like untrained mutts, raise their legs and urinate on everything we hold dear," - Michael Savage
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